Protect Your Family

Believe it or not there are several things that women can do to be pro active in preventing sexual assaults and possibly rapes. Knowing how an attacker thinks can work to your advantage. Potential victims can learn from these facts and put a plan in place to be better prepared to fend off an assault. The best defense if attacked is a self defense weapon such as a stun guns, taser C2, or mace pepper spray.

THE LOCATION. The most common place for an assault is a grocery store parking lot. Attackers figure that a victim’ hands and minds are distracted and are easy prey. Knowing this can make you better prepared and more on guard to fend off an attacker.  Always carry a self defense products.

THE TIME. The most common time for an attack is early morning. Think about it-there are less people around and thus less witnesses. Knowing this can put you on guard if you must be out and about in the early am. Always carry a self defense product.

THE LOOK. It is a fact that women with long hair specifically ponytails or braids that can easily be grabbed are more likely targets than women with short hair. It is just a fact! Attackers also look for women wearing loose fitting clothing.

THE FIGHT. It is also a fact that if ANY resistance is in the offing, most attackers move on quickly. They are expecting little or no resistance. When they encounter resistance it takes more time which increase the chances of discovery.
So FIGHT, FIGHT, FIGHT.

THE CARRY. How you carry yourself makes an impression. If your head is up and you walk confidently and quickly you are less likely a target than someone with their head down and walking slowly-just a fact.

WHAT YOU CARRY. If you carry a mace pepper spray, taser, or stun gun and know how to use it not only will it give you a better sense of confidence but will also give you time to escape if you need to use it.

Learn from these facts about assaults and develop a plan to protect yourself with a self defense weapon.

Recently the police department issued some guidance on how to avoid such attacks. They fall in the category of DUH! Well excuse me they are also called no-brainers especially if you live in the bad part of town wherever that is. Every town has at least one where gangs seem more prevalent.

WALKING. If walking anywhere like the store, out for some exercise, anywhere at all try to do it in daylight hours or if at night stay in well lit areas. And if possible don’t go alone. Go with a friend. Walk confidently too, head up and briskly always aware of your surroundings.

RIDES. I remember back in my high school days in Cleveland many moons ago I had to hitchhike about 18 miles to get close to home then walk another mile for the last leg of the journey. I wouldn’t think of doing that these days. For folks at bus stops or wherever DON’T accept rides from strangers.

ALWAYS CARRY. Always have some self defense products with you. A stun gun, pepper spray, personal alarm, or a combination thereof works best. They are inexpensive, easy to use and effective as can be

Self defense products like stun guns, pepper sprays and personal alarms allow you time to escape. They will give you from 3-15 minutes to escape to get help or just escape and survive.

They are not the answer for every situation but having a self defense product and knowing how to use it develops a sense of confidence that in and of itself can be a life saver. Get some today and learn how to use them-they could save your life.

Stun guns are not legal in some states. Some cities and states have restrictions on pepper sprays. Check with your local police department.

“WHEN YOU CARE ENOUGH TO STUN and SPRAY THE WORST”

Tips to teach the women we love:

1. If you are attacked, always remember the elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do! It would be ideal if you carried a self defense weapon of some kind such as a stun guns, Mace Pepper Spray or a Taser C2. Know how to use these self defense products in advance.

2. If you are mugged and the robber asks for your purse, don’t hand it to him but throw it away from you. Then run like crazy in the other direction.  An ideal self defense weapon would be a Taser C2.  You can bring them to your knees with out even coming into contact with them.  Then run like crazy and get help.

3. Use your loudest voice to scream for help, but if there is no one around, scream “NO!” and hold your hand in a stop position as you are backing away.  Carrying a Personal Alarm is much louder than your voice and hurts the ears.

4. If someone should jump in your car and hold a gun to your head, do not drive off. Instead put your foot on the gas pedal and speed into something. The airbag will save you, and as quick as the car hits, jump out and run.

5. Be aware of your circumstances at all times. If you feel you are being followed, go to a public building and call 911. Do not take a chance.

Trust your gut and always carry with you some sort of self defense weapon.

As humans, we are all blessed with an inner voice that gives us warnings and promptings. If something or someone does not feel right, then leave the area as soon as possible. Do not try to argue with your institution.

Sexual Assault is not about Sex

Sexual assault is about power, control, anger and feelings of inadequacy on the part of the offender. It is acting out of these thought patterns which focuses on those weaker and more vulnerable, which puts others at risk. Men, women and children who have been forced into sexual situations which were not consensual or where there was an inequity of power, should feel no blame or shame. It behooves us as a community to offer support for victims and speedy criminal charges and incarceration for those who would violate our most vulnerable members

When it comes to defending yourself there are a few things for you to know about before you have a dangerous, nasty encounter.
Did you know?

–One out of four women will be sexually assaulted on a college campus.

–One out of eight women will be raped while in college.

–84% of women who were raped knew their assailant.

–57% of rapes occur on a date.

–75% of male students and 55% of female students involved in date rape.

Women, particularly college women, are very susceptible to assault and rape. Date rape has become more of a threat than women want to admit. Women who want to keep a low profile and yet have a considered air of self confidence carry a new multi-purpose device that acts primarily as a stun gun but looks like a cell phone.

Stun guns were originally designed for an individual’s personal safety. Combine that with the looks of a cell phone and you have a non lethal self defense weapon that has the added element of surprise that could save your life.

Cell phone stun guns are an electroshock gun in the shape of a cell phone that can be used effectively for self-defense immobilizing an assailant for up to 5 minutes or more.

This unit also has a 100 db alarm and a super high intensity flashlight which alone could temporarily blind an assailant. The stun gun packs a whopping 800,000 volts enough to dissuade the most aggressive of assailants. A wrist strap with a stop pin sets off the 100 db alarm if the unit is pulled out of your hands.

Take away the element of surprise and turn the tables when it comes to self defense.
This cell phone is so realistic looking that any pervert would certainly be surprised himself by this nasty powerhouse. Self defense is calling.

Women have different types of personal security devices to choose from as a precaution. mace Pepper sprays, stun guns, taser c2, and other safety devices are some of the few we will mention here. Pepper Spray, I think, was the first one that became popular among women. It is easy to carry and is packaged in a compact and small aerosol can. It fits securely in a womans purse and on a key chain. These days they are even making mace pepper sprays in the form of a lipstick pepper spray. The thief will not know what hit him or her because a woman can take out her lipstick without the attacker being suspicious.

When the mace Pepper Spray is held toward the attacker and pressed to directly affect the eyes, it will stop the attacker in his or her tracks and disable the attacker. The canine pepper spray emits ten one second bursts and this is for individuals who are attacked by dogs. The bear pepper spray was created for a bear attack. The pepper spray only causes short term pain and is not detrimental to the attacker in the long run. It is just a temporary tool to give the woman a chance to escape quickly. The woman should first learn to use this pepper spray and not wait until she is attacked to fumble with it.

Stun Guns are small devices that are hand held. It is used by many law enforcement officers. It emits soaring voltage electric shock when it is used on an individual for up to five seconds. Once the individual is shocked with this elevated voltage, he or she becomes disoriented and will fall. Stun Guns cannot cause long term harm. The person will recuperate in up to ten minutes. This gives the woman enough time to escape.

Cell Phone Stun Gun is one of the newest personal security devices on the market. It carries up to 800,000 voltages. Its unique feature gives the woman a tactical advantage. The intruder or attacker will not know what hit them because the cell phone is not an obvious self defense tool. It is easy to surprise the attacker with a cell phone. The purpose for this device is to give the victim enough time to get away. It is not to intentionally harm since these tools are nonlethal weapons.

According to statistics, a rape occurs every two minutes in the United States. A staggering 33% of women are likely to be raped at least once in their lives, and what is the most shocking part is that in excess of 80% of these rapes will be committed by someone the woman knew. Thus, in such a bleak scenario as far as sexual assault and rape is concerned, every woman should know how to protect herself against this heinous crime. Here are some precautions that you can take to ensure that you do not become another rape statistic.

Ways To Protect Yourself From Rape

1. Be Armed: By being armed we do not mean carry a gun or a pistol on you, but instead other safety devices and products that can be as effective as a gun but less deadly. Mace  pepper spray, or even a taser C2 or stun guns are extremely effective to deter a potential rapist. These safety products are much easier to procure than a weapon and can be equally handy. In situations where you are under the threat of rape, you might find yourself in shock or without proper hand eye coordination. In such situations, a can of mace pepper foam or mace pepper spray may in fact be more useful than a regular gun.

In addition to being very effective, safety products are quite cheap too. They are designed in a manner (you can even get lipstick pepper sprays that look like a lipstick!) so as to fit even the smallest of purses, so that you can always have something handy with which to protect yourself. A great place to get the lipstick pepper spray, as well as numerous other products and devices for self defense products,  Apart from a great selection of safety devices out their, the prices are unbeatable.

2. Be Cautious when Outdoors: When you are away from home, it is important to be aware of what is going on around you and be alert. Here are some tactics to use when outdoors:

• Rapists generally tend to attack women who appear to be walking along aimlessly or who do not seem very active. Thus, by being confident and walking erect and purposefully, you can deter a rapist. By carrying a self defense weapons such as tear gas, mace pepper gel, stun guns, taser C2, or personal alarms.

• If you are walking on the streets, make sure to stay away from narrow alleys or dark streets. Never ever take a shortcut through a rough neighborhood or through deserted paths and always stay on the main street.

• Do not walk by yourself after dark. Take a cab home or ask a friend to pick you up. If you must walk, make sure you walk quickly and take a route that is not deserted. Keeping your can of mace pepper spray in your hand is also a good idea.

• Do not get into an elevator alone with someone you do not know. If you do find yourself alone with the stranger, stay near the exit doors of the elevator and within reach of the control panel. When leaving your car always have your personal self defense weapons ready to shoot.

• Always know exactly where you are. In case you do find yourself in trouble and have to call someone for help, you need to know your exact location. A 911 dispatcher will also ask you your location first, so know which area and street you are on.

• A large number of women get attacked when getting into their cars. Thus, approach your vehicle with your key already in your hand so that you do not waste time fumbling for the key. Get into your car as soon as you open it and drive away always having your self defense products ready  to shoot.

3. Safety at Home: The number of women who get raped in their homes is shocking! Thus, here’s what you can do to safeguard yourself when home:

• The area outside your main entrance should be lit properly so that there are no dark

According to the U.S. Department of Justice, there were over 24 million crimes reported in the U.S. during 2003. Of those, almost 5.6 million were personal crimes, while 18.6 million were property crimes. Twenty-two out of every 1,000 American households were affected by crimes of violence and 163 out of every 1,000 households were affected by property crimes. With these kinds of statistics, it’s understandable that Americans are concerned with personal safety and the safety of their homes and businesses. The Michigan State Police offer these tips for personal safety:
1. Stay alert. Keep your mind on your surroundings, as well as who is in front of you and who is behind you. Carry a person safety products such as stun guns, Taser C2, mace pepper spray or a personal alarm at all times and trust no one.

2. Walk purposefully, stand tall, and make eye contact with people around you.
 
3. Trust your instincts. If you feel uncomfortable in a situation, leave.

4. While driving, keep your car in good repair with the gas tank at least half full.

5. Park in well-lit areas and always lock your doors. When you exit your car have your personal safety products ready .

6. Put valuables out of sight or in the trunk.
 
7. Drive with the doors locked and the windows up.

8. Check the floorboards and front and rear seats before getting in your car.

9. In an elevator, stand near the controls. If someone suspicious enters, get off the elevator. Always have your mace pepper spray, taser C2 or stun guns ready to fire.

10. At home, don’t give personal information over the telephone to people you don’t know.

11. Install a peephole in your front door, and don’t open the door to anyone you don’t know. Verify the identity of service people before allowing them in. Use a wireless home security system and a wireless home security alarm.
 1.Do not hide house keys in mailboxes, planters, or under doormats. 2. Do not include personal identification on key rings. 3. Have a separate ignition key to leave with mechanics or parking attendants. 4. If you lose your house keys or move into a new house, have the locks re-keyed. 5. When going away, make sure your home looks occupied. Put interior lights on timers, arrange to have mail and newspaper delivery stopped, and close and lock your garage door. 6. Install and use good deadbolt locks on your doors; lock sliding glass doors or use a dowel in the door track. 7. Trim shrubbery hiding doors or windows and cut tree branches that could help a thief climb to second story windows. 8. Make sure all porches, entrances, and yards are well lit. When it comes to personal safety, many Americans are going a step further to ensure their own personal safety and the safety of their homes and offices. Car alarms, business alarms, and home alarms are important components of personal safety. Many people carry whistles on their key rings or in their pockets; when personal safety is at risk, blowing whistles can attract the attention of passersby, who can then call for help. Some people carry mace pepper spray in their pockets, briefcases or purses, while others carry concealed stun guns to the extent that the law allows. You might also consider a taser C2. Those who leave their children in the care of others often use baby cams or other video recorders and hidden cameras to ensure that the caregivers are acting appropriately.

Mailbox Area

This area is one of the most dangerous and you should always keep your guard up along with some kind of personal safety products such as mace pepper spray,  stun guns, a taser C2 or personal alarm. Criminals keep a close eye on mailbox sections of an apartment complex. Why? Because people are pretty predictable as to when they check their mail. Attackers like the fact that if they observe you for a few days, they can pretty much predict when you are going to check your mailbox. Usually people go to this section when they drive home from work. When you approach your mailbox, look around you. If there are a few people present, it is safer, but if you are the only one there, please be very cautious, especially at night. Always prepare your self defense product and have it in your hand and prepared to be used, prior to approaching the mailbox area.

Club House Area

Some complexes have club houses to rent them out for parties, but others have indoor recreational things such as pool and ping pong tables, pin ball machines, video games etc. Club houses can be very popular, especially on the weekends and in the evenings. Many times you will encounter people who are drinking alcoholic beverages that they brought from their apartment. It is always wise to go to club houses with a friend. Once in a while you will encounter a sore looser at a card game, for example, that can become violent and take it out on whomever is nearby. If you meet a new person, be careful on giving out your apartment number. Be aware also if someone is following you back to your apartment. If you are in fear of being followed, go to a friend’s apartment, if you know they are home. Always have your mace pepper spray or stun gun ready to spray or shoot.

Tennis Court or Pool Area

The tennis court is pretty safe because you usually are accompanied by a tennis partner. The pool area is also pretty safe since it is very open and everyone is in plain site. Even when you are alone, an attacker will avoid an area that many people can see easily. Just make sure that when you leave the pool area, you prepare your self defense product ahead of time, prior to walking back to your apartment. This is important, because, since you are in plain site, that also means that a potential attacker or stalker could have also been looking at you. Keep in mind, that if you are going to the pool on a regular basis, try to go at different times of the day. This will make your schedule less predictable. If you are alone, try NOT to go at night. Always have your self defense weapon ready for at any given time you need to be ready to shoot your taser C2, stun guns, or mace pepper spray.

Laundry Room Area

Here is another section of an apartment complex that is very dangerous. For one, it is noisy because of the machines. This noise can easily cover up someones scream or cry for help. For some reason, people feel they need to chat with whomever else is doing laundry. This can be a great tool for an assailant to get more information from you that you shouldn’t have given to him in the first place! Be careful what you tell a complete stranger. Even if he is the cutest guy, and my, so meticulous with his neatly folded laundry! Impressive right? NO! Potential attackers play a caring role to make you feel comfortable and therefore letting your guard down. Again in this situation make sure you have a self defense products readily available.

Trash Dump Area

This area is of much concern because most people dump their trash at night, after dinner. If you don’t want to wait until morning, please be very careful about this. If your trash dump area is dark, ask the apartment complex manager to install some kind of lighting around it. This may prove to be difficult but it is worth a try. You might want to consider asking a few female friends, that live there, to join in your request. Always take your self defense product with you and prepare it to be used. Always move cautiously toward the site and look around carefully as you approach. If you see someone that you do not recognize near it, maybe leaning against their car or smoking… Just turn around and go back home. You can always try later. It is better to be cautious than hurt or killed. If your trash is heavy, just set it down somewhere temporarily, where you can pick it up later. By carrying your self defense weapons you will be a target to be reckon with.

Car Parking and Building Safety

If you are planning to move to a condo or apartment complex look into the parking areas. You’ll be coming and going a lot, so it should be as safe as possible.  You might also consider an Auto Dialer Security and Safety Alarm.

Buildings should be well lit at night. Walkways should be free from shrubbery so there is no hideout. Always protect yourself with  personal safety products. Such as mace pepper spray, pepper spray guns, tear gas, or a taser C2.   Also it would be preferable for a card swipe or code entry lock system.

There should be direct access from parking areas to the entrance of dwellings.

Car parks should be less than 200 feet from dwellings, and the path should be well lit and free from shrubbery.  Carrying a self defense weapons.

Visitors’ car parks should be well lit, clearly identifiable, and visible from dwellings.

Access to enclosed car parks should be limited to residents by some form of electronic entry control device if possible.  When not don’t go from your car to apartment with out some sort of personal safety products.

If it is desirable to limit access to dwellings, make sure access via car parks is monitored as well.  Carry a self defense weapons.

In high-crime areas, advanced technological surveillance methods may be needed in car parks. For example, an infrared unit is available, which detects the presence of intruders - but not cats and dogs - by body heat, and automatically switches on all lights in the car park and turns them off after 15 to 20 minutes.  Carry a person safety products.

If you are renting see that the unit has heavy-duty doors and locks. If you are buying you may want to make lock changes. It is safe to do so anyway. You never know who has keys to your house, so it is advisable to change your locks prior to spending your first night in your new place.  Always carry self defense weapons.

You don’t have to be a victim.
Believe it or not there are several things that women can do to be pro active in preventing sexual assaults and possibly rapes. Knowing how an attacker thinks can work to your advantage. Potential victims can learn from these facts and put a plan in place to be better prepared to fend off an assault.It is also better to be prepared with self defense products such as tear gas, mace pepper gel, stun guns, cell phone stun guns, a taser C2 or even a personal alarm would be better than nothing.

THE LOCATION.
 The most common place for an assault is a grocery store parking lot. Attackers figure that a victim’ hands and minds are distracted and are easy prey. Knowing this can make you better prepared and more on guard to fend off an attacker. Have a self defense weapon ready in your hand.  It doesn’t do any good in your purse!

THE TIME.
The most common time for an attack is early morning. Think about it-there are less people around and thus less witnesses. Knowing this can put you on guard if you must be out and about in the early am. When your out running or even getting the mail or paper carry your self defense products with you.

THE LOOK.
It is a fact that women with long hair specifically ponytails or braids that can easily be grabbed are more likely targets than women with short hair. It is just a fact! Attackers also look for women wearing loose fitting clothing. Carry with you your self defense products.

THE FIGHT.
It is also a fact that if ANY resistance is in the offing, most attackers move on quickly. They are expecting little or no resistance. When they encounter resistance it takes more time which increase the chances of discovery.
So FIGHT, FIGHT, FIGHT.Spray spray spray your self defense weapon such as mace pepper spray, or tase them with your Tasere C2.  Bet they will think twice about doing it again.

THE CARRY.
How you carry yourself makes an impression. If your head is up and you walk confidently and quickly you are less likely a target than someone with their head down and walking slowly-just a fact.

WHAT YOU CARRY. If you carry a mace pepper spray, taser C2, or stun guns and know how to use it not only will it give you a better sense of confidence but will also give you time to escape if you need to use it.